Going after what you want

i dont want to just settle just because what i want isnt there at the moment.

i dont want to take myself down a path that really isnt right for me.

i know people say that when you go down a different path, that is when you find yourself the most.

but i rather figure out exactly what i want before doing something just because it's there

why is it impossible to hold out for the perfect job, the perfect relationship, the perfect life??

is it that those things don't exist??

i like to think that they do .... otherwise, there's no point in having dreams and following after the things that you really want.

first step is to figure out what exactly it is that you want
after that, it's obtaining it, which can be done!

things to work on:
1. self confidence
2. figuring out myself before involving someone else
3. being happy
4. knowing that ultimately, you need to listen to your gut